When you asked me that question , I was taken aback.
You had a real girl standing right in front of you. I couldn’t understand why you didn’t see that.
I liked you, but clearly I wasn’t the real you were seeking so, I half-a**ed my answer. I put it in simple terms. If you’re authentic with people even if they don’t like what you have to say, they will still respect you because you’ve had the courage to be more real than most.
As time has passed this question that you asked me that night still haunts me. I’m sorry it’s taken me so long to give you the answer you truly deserve.
Here it is.
Full article: An Open Letter to the Man who Asked me how to Find a Real Girl.