peter, I do not offer you any false hope, there is no such thing anyway. kabballah says that when she takes you, she embraces you inside her arms and then she gives you her breath just before she kisses you, and then your pleasure is so great, that your breath mixes with hers and as her lips touch yours, the profound last thirty seconds are more than enough of knowing that you cannot contain the complete and perfect love that joins you to it. It’s purple all the way!!!